Behaviour

I want to tell you something that changed how I understood everything. Presence is not a personality trait. It is not something you either have or you do not. It is not confidence, charisma, or any of the other words people reach for when they are trying to describe something they cannot fully explain. Presence…

I want to tell you something that took me a long time to fully accept. The morning I put on my first properly fitted suit, something shifted. Not in how other people looked at me, although that changed, too. Something shifted internally. The way I sat down at the table. The way I spoke in…